I have a tendency to get caught up in the past and present, and in the thought that there are so many things I need to do in my life. As they say, you should live your life to the fullest and take all the opportunities presented, yaadiyaa. Then again, we (both of us) are so very young. Yes, we could die tomorrow, but there's too many things to be done for you to be able to execute all your wishes within weeks, months, years. Sure, you can't just expect things to fall into your lap - you will actually have to make a bit of an effort when the chance presents itself. But I believe that if you genuinely want something to happen (ie fall in love), you will grab the opportunity when it presents itself and moreover, when you're ready. And I don't think it's naive to wait for the 'right one'. I, personally, have never felt the need to experiment with people I haven't felt strongly for. It works for some of us, for the others not. If you had made different choices in the past, had different experiences, you would not be the same person you are today. And I agree with starkku. Waiting for the person who feels right for a romantic relationships does not necessarily mean soulmate.
I hope I'm making at least some sense, I often find it difficult to express my thoughts.
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Date: 6 Nov 2007 19:40 (UTC)Then again, we (both of us) are so very young. Yes, we could die tomorrow, but there's too many things to be done for you to be able to execute all your wishes within weeks, months, years. Sure, you can't just expect things to fall into your lap - you will actually have to make a bit of an effort when the chance presents itself. But I believe that if you genuinely want something to happen (ie fall in love), you will grab the opportunity when it presents itself and moreover, when you're ready.
And I don't think it's naive to wait for the 'right one'. I, personally, have never felt the need to experiment with people I haven't felt strongly for. It works for some of us, for the others not.
If you had made different choices in the past, had different experiences, you would not be the same person you are today.
And I agree with starkku. Waiting for the person who feels right for a romantic relationships does not necessarily mean soulmate.
I hope I'm making at least some sense, I often find it difficult to express my thoughts.
Ja hyvää myöhäistä syntymäpäivää. :)